(Dagbladet): In Wednesday’s episode of the TV3 program “Luksusfellen” takes the experts a trip to Langesund in Telemark, norway, to help Lean the Lia Gunstad (52).
the Problems started when she 12 years ago was mom, and thus had to say up a well paid job in the hotel industry to take a new job with a lower salary and shorter working days.
As a single mother increased course expenses, something she eventually had to resolve with credit cards and consumer loans.
In the program, it’s revealed that Les has several hundred thousand dollars in forbruksgjeld, as she for many years has paid down every single month.
however, There were two bills she could not pay. In order to avoid debt collection, she gets told that she she must scrape together the 9000 money immediately.
Got help from unknown person
having laid out more assets to the sale without success, suggests psychologist Robert Speare that she will be hosting a flea market next to a shopping centre in Skien.
to create awareness around the flea market, set she to the interview at Radio Grenland to tell about their situation. Openness creates, however, more than just buzz around the sale.
Les gets, in fact, a bit of a shock when forbrukerøkonom Sally Sandmæl says that a person who wishes to remain anonymous has chosen to transfer the entire 6000 dollars to help her on the road.
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Lia Gunstad is clearly touched by the generous surprise and breaks out in weeping.
He has read your story and it hits the people right in the heart, ” says Sandmæl in the program.
- Yes, I realize the it now. This here is bigger than I had ever thought myself. It’s absolutely amazing, ” says Lean.
To Seoghør.en elaborates on the 52-year-old further:
- What do you think about the gift you got?
I was very overwhelmed, especially struck me how kind people could be. The gift meant incredibly lot. We norwegians speak in general little economic problems. Although I think it is important to be open about it.
- Participation in the “Luksusfellen” has only been positive for my part, and I have learned a lot. Everyone involved in the process have been of very good help and support, bragging Lie.
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the Cause of that Lean got pengegaven is that she dared to talk about the difficult situation in the local press. Previously, she had held økonomiproblemene hidden.
“Luksusfellen”-psychologist Robert Speare tells Seoghør.now that it was a big challenge for Lean.
She felt that she had someone who she could talk with. But it was she! She had to first learn to open up, dare to disclose themselves and show what needs she had. When she did this so she really is the amazing network she had around him. All, absolutely all, would help. Known and unknown, ” he says.
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- Take up credit in order to cover over the problems
Speare, which was part of the TV3 program earlier in the year, tells us that alenemoren far from the only one who has difficulties with talking about money problems.
- Economic hardship is often skambelagt. The reason is that many think that they have failed with a mature adult life if they do not master privatøkonomien. Whether it is immature impulsinnkjøp or lack of responsibility which has led to problems, it is clear that this is the personality trait that you are not proud of, ” he says and elaborates:
Solution for many is to keep the situation hidden and develop destructive strategies for coping: Namely, to take up more credit in order to cover over the problems, says TV psychologist.
See how it goes with the Les in the “Luksusfellen” sent on TV3 Wednesday 20.30.
the Article was first published on Seoghør.no.
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