Norwegian expert defends Victoria’s image – Seher

– Let parents love free, it is the very source of growth and well-being.

Now meetings stjerna hardship. On Instagram, she posted a photo of herself and her daughter Harper (5), where they apparently are on swim.

The occasion was Harper’s birthday and she celebrates it all to kiss her on the lips. “We love you a lot,” writes Beckham, followed by several hearts.

It’s not all that can be charmed by the picture. Beckham has received several comments that a parent should not kiss their children on the mouth.

– Uncomfortable

“You must not kiss children on the lips. I try not to be rude, but it’s true, “a user commented under the photo said.

Dozens of similar comments have interest in.

Liz Brewer, an expert on social etiquette, believes that kissing children is an uncommon practice.

– I had felt uncomfortable about doing it and I think most people agree. If she feels that befits so will be. I would not say that she is a good role model, says Brewer said.

– Rather too many than too few

However, there is controversy among experts on whether this is fine.

the Norwegian child psychologist Kerstin Söderström at Lillehammer University College, tells Dagbladet that one should let the love free.

– let parents love free, it is the very source of growth and wellness, she says and continues:

– But respect what your child likes and dislikes. It is about being aware of your child’s reaction and remember that children, how sweet they are, are not fair game for adults, intimate and wink needs, says child psychologist.

She believes that children are full of people with inner experiences to be listened to and respected.

– to learn themselves to know and to understand and respect others, explains Söderström.

If you have older children, you can feel free to ask child about what they think about kissing before you do it.

– there may be some situations they do not like where they need help to protect themselves for enthusiastic aunts and grandparents. But all in all, better with a bit too many than too few kisses, exiting child psychologist.

The case was originally published on Dagbladet.no.

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14 July 2016 – 9:31